Keith's New Bed

Finally, Keith's new bed has arrived. I've started to let Keith sleep on the mattress on the floor a few months ago since we are planning for a baby next year. But, he'll wake up middle of the nite and climb up the bed and sleep in between the two of us everynite. I've tried to trick him so many times by sleeping with him on the mattress but he'll leave me and climb up the bed by himself and then tell me "Goodnite". The other day, we saw this bed in a furniture shop and Keith was so excited and started to clim up the bed. So, we've decided to purchase it hoping that he'll sleep on the bed. Well, I hope tonite he'll sleep on his new bed and let mummy and daddy hug each other and sleep.Hehe...



Go and buy 4D "My car number is 168"








"Is this a lorry or a car. So hard to turn the steering wheel"




Hubby's been very selfish lately and will always get angry when I let the little fella sleep on the bed with us. He feels that I've been paying more attention to Keith. Well of course I have to coz' he's still young. When it comes to 2nd baby planning, hubby will always tell me one is enough. He felt that if we have a 2nd baby, he won't have my attention anymore. Sometimes, I felt hubby's being selfish and never think that his children are still young and needs me more than he does. I've never neglected him. It's just that we don't have much time for each other like we used to when we were childless. Of course he can have my attention day and nite coz' I don't need to pay attention to others.
He complained that I never go on a holiday alone with him. That's becoz' he never asked. He said I always drag Keith along with us whenever we go on a holiday. That's becoz' MIL is going somewhere and no one is at home to take care of Keith. We'll never leave Keith alone with the maid. Most of the time, hubby goes out drinking with his friends and would come home at wee hours. During the weekends, he's somewhere with his friends and spending his weekends with his friends. Leaving Keith, my maid and I alone. He's never take the initiative to bring Keith swimming, to the playground or even out for a meal alone. When I pointed out these issues, he just kept quiet. He expect me to handle Keith by myself with the help from my maid and yet complaint about me not paying much attention to him. Sometimes, I felt so envy seeing other parents bringing their children out to the park, etc. and spend their weekends together. If we are in KL for the weekend, he'll leave the kids (Including my step daughter) with me and go out clubbing with his friends. When I expect him to bring the children shopping, visit the zoo, etc. He'll be too tired to wake up the next day coz' he'll came back during wee hrs and expect us to wait for him to get up at 11am or 12 pm.When I planned on something, he'll just say "You bring the kids and I'll stay at home". That remarks always make me blow my top coz' I expect him to bring the children along with me.
I just don't understand what is so hard for him to be more responsible with the kids and spend more precious time with them. No wonder my son and stepdaughter are so attached to me.So hard for me to persuade him for baby no.2. I hope in a few months time, I'll bring good news for everyone.Hehe